Maybe it's a "big-city" thing to stay friends with all the friends of your ex's, and with your ex, for the cohesion of the clique. I dunno. I didn't stay in touch at all with three of my Long-term chapters that ended in my life's story. I only stayed friends with one L/T, because she is a wonderful person, and we just grew in separate directions. I've only recently said, "Hi, what's new?", on fb, to the three that did me wrong, and they were each more than 15 years out of my memory. Actually time-span range: 18 to 29 years had past for those three "chapters" on faded parchment, before I said "Hi". Maybe it's because I don't have a clique to manipulate me. I wouldn't want to belong to one, either, by the sounds of it. I'm a leader, not a follower. "SHEEP! SHEEP!"
Maybe it's a "big-city" thing to stay friends with all the friends of your ex's, and with your ex, for the cohesion of the clique. I dunno. I didn't stay in touch at all with three of my Long-term chapters that ended in my life's story. I only stayed friends with one L/T, because she is a wonderful person, and we just grew in separate directions. I've only recently said, "Hi, what's new?", on fb, to the three that did me wrong, and they were each more than 15 years out of my memory. Actually time-span range: 18 to 29 years had past for those three "chapters" on faded parchment, before I said "Hi". Maybe it's because I don't have a clique to manipulate me. I wouldn't want to belong to one, either, by the sounds of it. I'm a leader, not a follower. "SHEEP! SHEEP!"
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